I’m not a fan of the term “dog training.”  Not only is it demeaning, belittling, and underestimating the dog, it creates wrong intent…of obedience.  Really, you should be striving for optimal communications.

If you want a loving family member, not a slave, then you must first realize, this is a two way street.  In fact, because the dog must mostly adapt to your world, the onus is mostly on you to ensure the dog fits in.  When I hear a dog parent say their dog has a particular temperament or “is the way she is,” it usually indicates the parent’s lack of priority or effort on their part.

Here are two fantastic books I believe are must-reads.  Power of Positive Dog Training is a lot about communicating to your dog.  Culture Clash gives great insights in how to better understand your dog.  Together, these give a great foundation for a happy life together.

by Pat Miller

A renowned dog trainer gives you the positive training tools you need to share a lifetime of fun, companionship, and respect with your dog. Plus, you’ll get: information on the importance of observing, understanding, and reacting appropriately to your dog’s body language; instructions on how to phase out the use of a clicker and treats to introduce more advanced training concepts; a diary to track progress; suggestions for treats your dog will respond to; and a glossary of training terms.

by Jean Donaldson

The book that has shaped modern dog training and ownership with its unique and scientifically sound recognition of the “cultural” differences between dogs and humans. Dogs can’t read so you need to in order to really understand your dog.